Today I lost another good friend, of course it was another cat. My Tuxedo cat, Blaze. She was 16 years old. As I drove home from the vet telling my self to just "breath, you can drive while you cry" I started a train of thought on how loss creates us. It's as if we need loss in order to grow just as we need love in order to grow. Of course if you never love, you can never feel loss.